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stronger foundation   8/7/2003

In a relationship, the following must be present in order to have a stronger foundation—Love, Respect, Trust, and being open to suggestion.... In all these important ingredients, with a good way of communicating with each other the couple can be very much in good hands with each other. Expressing what and how you feel play an essential part as well. Be honest to each other in all ...


0 Comments, 216 Views, 59 Votes ,6.94 Score
BadMiGirl32 59 F
17  Articles
Re:Cheating Is Wrong No Matter what   8/5/2003

Well if your only lacking sex in a marriage...."a man who has lived up to his end of the bargain, provided for his wife and family has no business expecting sex from is wife?? Then what DOES that earn for the husband then?? A thanks dear and a cold shower??" And I am sure if we talked to your wife, you havent held up your end of any bargain....pssst...maybe you dont know this but a ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 46 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_MiosotisX 66 F
8  Articles
Re: On married men... A cheating wife's view   6/19/2003

I'm sorry but I can't agree at all with what you wrote and yes... I have been in a situation where sex was not satisfying, stayed for 10 years but it was my choice and that gave me no permission to cheat! Cheating and lying is a wrong way to lead your life whether it is in an intimate relationship or any other kind: friendship, work, etc. A cheater and a lier is a cheater and a lier in ...


0 Comments, 296 Views, 75 Votes ,5.56 Score
BadMiGirl32 59 F
17  Articles
Cheating   6/15/2003

I just read the articles on Cheating etc. in this column and in others on this site. I cant believe the opinions for most people and how most feel it is ok to stay married and cheat for the sake of the and assests.....hmmmm let's be "real" for a minute, in a few years when these are adults all of us older people will wonder why so many are screwed up and cant be in a good solid ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 57 Votes ,5.98 Score
BadMiGirl32 59 F
17  Articles
On Married Men....Part 2   5/29/2003

OMG....I cant believe you have such a immature opinion about it being ok for a married man to cheat. Us independent WOMEN who are very open minded that want a whole man rather than just a man who is lacking sex in his marriage are in fact at terms with men like you out here and we scare you because we are onto your game *smile*....there is more to life than sex and there is more to ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 48 Votes ,4.96 Score
MissAnnThrope 50 F
0  Articles
Re: On married men   5/24/2003

I'm a single, strong, independent woman. The one thing I don't do, and will never, ever do is play with another woman's man. Why are you looking outside of your relationship for sex? What is going on at home? Your wife has no energy after working a full day, making sure the got their homework done, making dinner, doing the dishes, housework, and then you expect her to be ready, ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 84 Votes ,5.37 Score
BadMiGirl32 59 F
17  Articles
Re: On married men   5/22/2003

My personal opinion on married people cheating...fix what's wrong at home yourself before you go out looking for something or someone to fix it for you or to fill the missing part! If 2 people are in agreement on one or the other cheating that's fine we are adults and we are entitled to choose whatever it is we want to do, as for me getting involved with a married man..... I Won't Do It, ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 60 Votes ,4.24 Score
A Story of Two   5/7/2003

From the very beginning she found herself attracted to him…..their was a warmth in his smile.....tenderness came across in his voice...gentleness in his heart...physically and sexually they were in tune...all very good reasons to want to find out more about him ! He spoke of pouring her a bath and washing her hair, while he prepared dinner…and much more than words did she ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 64 Votes ,7.69 Score
Trusting   4/27/2003

I am in a great relationship with a girl I truly believe I love, but find myself having the occasional mistrustful thought. I normally have a lot of trouble trusting, but I hate it. I am sure I have nothing to worry about with this woman. I do trust her, but can't resist the bad thoughts once in a while. Anyone have any suggestions on how to completely trust? Because trust is very ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 59 Votes ,8.10 Score
rm_redroses4me 54 C
1  Article
RE: Why women play games   4/22/2003

AMEN to the man that said men play games too!!!! I'm not saying that women don't, but I swear they teach men in elementary school how to play the games. The one I think I hate the most is when you start out in a relationship everything is going great, you let the man set the pace (god knows you don't want to spook him) he calls every day, wants to see you all the time, then WHAM he calls ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 88 Votes ,7.14 Score
response to DO PEOPLE find people/relationships here? YES IT DOES   3/17/2003

My answer is yes. We met through AdultFriendFinder, had a baby girl in May, and are still together. <br> YES AdultFriendFinder works.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 35 Votes ,6.50 Score
Is he still attrated to me?   3/10/2003

Will I really am very confused, and really don't know who to talk to about this, but here go's. My boyfriend of only 6 months is not giving me the attention I need. when we had first met I had told him that I acquire alot of attention and he had no problem with that, but now I am lucky if he even glances ovor at me naked. Theres a little age difference between us about 14 years he is ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 33 Votes ,1.68 Score
Older woman Please Let Go   3/2/2003

I am Writing this letter because I am tired of seeing ads from woman who are older who reject men because they are younger without even giving them a shot. <br> I know men who will not date a woman once she hits 45 and many have wives who they dont touch but maybe once a month but they have girlfriends 19-30 tucked away that they have sex with 3-5 times a week. <br> I ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 121 Votes ,8.70 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
Trying Again.....   2/21/2003

In a follow-up to Moving Forward? <br> Well, I approached him, and a more emotionally involved relationship is not what he wants. (I knew this going into the relationship, and did not try to change it.) I asked politely and calmly with the knowledge that we had an agreement for sex only, and I was pushing the boundaries and rules discussed over the past year. <br> No ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 25 Votes ,6.45 Score
He doesn't know he dominates me   1/31/2003

I have been exploring my submissive side for about five years. It is so difficult for me to express my interest in this lifestyle because of who I am. If you met me in person you would never know I have this side. I am highly educated, have a great job and appear to be in total control of my life. Who would ever imagine I want to be a submissive to a man? Obviously, not many men think ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 49 Votes ,7.93 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
Moving forward?   1/4/2003

Getting past the loneliness…. <br> <br> It’s been a very long time since I’ve had a relationship. Life happens, and now there are so many responsibilities.I have a very ill parent who is my dependant and live thousands of miles away from the socially structured family and friends to whom I am close. These relationships are very difficult and at times ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 42 Votes ,6.62 Score
man from singapore (2)   12/22/2002

Past few day I couldn't stop thinking of susan and was fascinated of her sexist figures and snowy complexion.Meantime, I'm quite worried and afraid my wife might found out what I've done to susan.Fortunately, My wife was so busy with work, Anyway relationship with susan was fantastic and I were patiently awaiting for any opportunity to make love to her again.Finally day arrival, My wife was ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 29 Votes ,5.35 Score
man from singapore   11/19/2002

I've been married for 22 years, middle age chinese man had two , A girl and a boy. Boy was in military and girl in university.They would come home only on weedend. One day my wife younger sister(susan 35) call and said she would like to come over to stay my house, No problem, I've always had a good relationship with her. One day my wife was out working, susan got out the shower and steped ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 70 Votes ,4.44 Score